A Bootbeares Confessions 2017!

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Boots are made for walking?! Mmm . . perhaps it should be Admiring!
I’m always walking in BOOTS no matter what their are (LATEX OR LEATHER OR PVC) beause it’s the feel that really matter to ME & (MY SUBS) hypnotic, dreamy, and it’s definitely one for letting the imagination run away with you.
This particular pair of leather boots with lace detail have been a real hit among many of you! Oh dear, I can’t think why!!!
Now for those ALL PEOPLE out there who adore leather boots, I will be happy to write little story about you’re BOOTS that WHY all you womenout there wearing BOOTS are dedicated to REAL LIFE 24/7 Equestrian enthusiast. Leather boots feature heavily in my BDSM LIFESTYLE , and they are made for walking, also in the world their are other amongble things!
Well, I must say, the weather here is proving to be incredibly warm, it really feels as though summer is here! How wonderful.
I do hope you all have a superb bank holiday weekend, and for those outside of the UK, I wish you a most enjoyable day.
f0c545bc-2771-44be-9455-0961101750bf.jpgOh and please do not hesitate to write to me with your story / experience of leather boots. What’s your desire?, Also BOOTS ARE IMPORTANT to LADIES no matter of SIDE OR COLOUR, it’s also IMPORTANT TO US (LADIES) to have are BOOTS KETP CLEAR SO KEEP ARE PASSION IN WEARING OUR BOOTS AND SHOW MEN HOW POWERFUL WOMEN REALLY ARE TO SUBMISSIVE PEOPLE!, also Mistresses & Dommess use BOOTS in WINTER SISSONS TO KEEP THEM SELFS VERY WARM AND TO KEEP THEIR FEET VERY WARM FROM RAIN O SNOW,also BOOTS can be cleaned & should be cleaned any way the (DOMME O MISTRESS O OWNER ) see fit to have them cleaned by the SUBMISSIVE SLAVES
(MALE O FEMALE) ….

 

 

The Pedestal House SLAVES SPAIN

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The Pedestal House Slaves have proved themselves to be an extremely popular feature of our events so far.

In fact, they have been so much in demand that we are looking to expand the current team with some new recruits.

In their distinctive red collars and striped apron uniforms, our team of well-trained slaves provide a valuable service to our female guests.

Under the strict management of Pedestal’s Female organisers, our house slaves are available for use by all mistresses attending the club.

The role requires showing obedience to any of our female guests, and providing services like :

Circulating the club with refreshments or flowers as provided by Pedestal
Offering shoe shine sevices for attending mistresses using equipment provided
Foot massage and pampering
Fetching drinks from the bar for mistresses as instructed
Any other services required by mistresses requiring a temporary slave!
Being a member of the Pedestal House slaves team is a demanding but rewarding role. the owner (Sibylla du irons ) of the pedestal house in SPAIN …

 

What is Protocol to SLAVES!

 

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What is protocol to SLAVES?

 

 

Protocol – a series of rules and behaviors that are deemed appropriate and expected for certain circumstances.

In today’s BDSM society there is no set rules for protocol. Some portions of this community have a general guideline that they observe; however, even within these factions there is very little that is set in concrete.

Protocol is unique to each individual, and therefore is far more flexible than the ideal implies. There is no one specific set of protocols that fits everyone’s needs and lifestyle. Some individuals follow the Gorean lifestyle, others follow Old Guard/New Guard, some follow the European, or the Geisha style, and still others follow their own unique style that they have found works for their house. No specific style is better or worse than any other, each one must be judged for their usefulness and logic.

There are many things to think about when one establishes protocol.

1. The health and physical limitations of the individuals involved.

I normally prefer to have my slave sleep on a pallet at the foot of my bed, but that is not possible with a slave that has had a total knee replacement.

2. The location, and circumstances that the protocol will be required.

While I demand proper respect, and appropriate behavior in public it is not proper to expect my slave to kneel before me so that I may try a necklace on her in Wal-Mart.

3. The visibility of the behaviors, in regards to the general public.

Some individuals demand that the slave/sub wear no underwear, and be open and available at all times. This is wonderful at a BDSM event but not sitting in the food court at the mall, where children may be present. Always remember the general public did not consent to being involved in your lifestyle, if you expect respect then you need to show respect as well.

4. The legalities of the behavior.

Some individuals require their slave/subs to be naked at all times when they were at home. This is wonderful if you live out in the middle of no-where with no neighbors and no one comes by for a visit, but to have your slave mow the yard in the nude while your 68 yr old next door neighbor watches is a little on the illegal side.
It also is not a good idea to have your slave answer the door in the nude without first checking to see who is there, the religious groupies or the pizza delivery guy may not appreciate the body of your slave as much as you do.

5. The logic of the behavior.

Some individuals keep a slave chained or caged whenever they are not present or the slave is not in use. This is not logical, nor is it safe. What if you put your slave in his cage for the evening and then went out to dinner with a friend, when you get back you find your house on fire and police and fire fighters are everywhere, you stare at your home in disbelief and then remember your slave. A little common sense goes a long way.

6. The health issues behind a behavior.

Some individuals state that the slave has no say in who uses them sexually, and there are no requirements as to the use of condoms, in today’s society this is a huge health issue, you don’t pass around a slave to all your buddies and hope that they have been tested clean. If a slave’s health is at risk, you are at risk of losing your slave.

7. The moral or ethical issues behind a behavior.

Some individuals do not allow their slaves to say “NO”, hence if the behavior is something that the slave finds to be ethically or morally questionable then the slave will begin to question the Master/Mistress’s judgment. For example if a slave is informed that he or she will perform oral service for each guest that comes over for a BDSM party, and the slave/sub has moral issues with homosexuality; at this point the slave will begin to question the
judgment of the Master/Mistress, especially if they are fully aware of the feelings of the slave/sub.

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8. The religious issues behind a behavior.

A slave is ordered to eat everything the Master/Mistress tells him or her to. However the slave is Jewish and is faced with a spiritual dilemma when the Master/Mistress orders them to eat pork roast.

9. Keep it simple.

Do not give a slave “the 69 rules of slavery” and expect your slave to memorize
each and every rule, and position; yes protocol is important but get real, do not set your slave up to fail. Also do not create so many rules that you can’t memorize them all yourself, even if the slave/sub doesn’t know all the rules you are expected to know each one by heart.

10. Do not create a rule or protocol that you do not intend to enforce.

If you are going to demand a behavior you had best be prepared to follow through with consequences when your instructions are not followed.

These are just a few examples of the magnitude of forethought that must go into a general order, or directive that is focused on protocol. I know that it seems rather a lot to consider, but in reality there has to be a lot of forethought when it comes to a required behavior. One of the biggest mistakes a Dominant can do is to create an improper rule. It shows the slave/sub that the Dominant did not take into consideration all aspects of the behavior prior to creating the rule, and it may cause the slave/sub to question the Dominant’s level of
experience.

Here are a few examples of the behaviors I expect from my slaves/subs within my home

Slave must wear appropriate clothing for unexpected vanilla guests, unless otherwise ordered.
Slave must shower each day, use deodorant, and wash hair as often as necessary (based on my discretion).
Slave must look clean and presentable at all times.
Slave must shave pubic areas; females must shave below the neck (armpits, legs).
Slave must wear a service collar at all times, unless taking a shower or otherwise directed.
Slave may not use vulgar language, or baby words…(such as pee-pee, poo-poo, or hoo-hoo).
Slave must wake up and go to bed at directed times unless ill.
Slave must address all Masters/Mistresses as Sir or Ma’am, unless otherwise directed. It is best to ask prior to using a title.
Slave will eat after I am served.
Slave must ask to go to the bathroom.
Slave must leave the door to the bathroom open unless…
There are individuals present that might be offended.
The slave feels that the odor will be offensive.
The slave is going to be sick.
Slave must sit on the commode (both male and female).
Slave is not allowed to smoke.
Slave is not permitted to drink alcohol, without explicit permission.
Slave may not use illegal drugs of any kind.
Slave must take any prescribed medications as directed and follow all advice given by a medical professional religiously.
Slave must subject him or herself to any medical treatment or testing directed by me and or a medical professional.
Slave must inform me of any physical or emotional problems.
Slave must make sure that the house is presentable at all times.
Slave must not argue with me, if there is a difference of opinion the slave may voice his or her opinion respectably.
Slave must show respect at all times, both in action and verbally.
Slave will always be honest, and answer any questions put before him or her as thoroughly as possible.
Slave may not get on computer or play games until all assigned work is completed.
Being playful is acceptable, acting like a spoiled child is not.
Slave must treat all guests with respect
Slave may not touch him or herself in a sexual manner without permission.
Slave may not achieve orgasm without permission.
Slave will notify me immediately if anyone has touched him or her in a sexual or inappropriate manner without my permission. This would include anyone that makes the slave feel uncomfortable through verbal or physical actions.
Slave will always remember that he or she is a reflection of me and behave accordingly.
When in doubt ask, if there is a question about instructions or if an order needs clarity the slave is expected to ask questions. The slave will never be punished for asking a question when done with respect, it is up to my discretion whether to answer or not.
All orders must be carried out in a timely manner.
These are some simple examples of general protocol within my home. Each individual serving in my home may have specific rules of behavior as well. Also there are rules for specific occasions as well as rules associated with specific individuals.

Here are a few more examples protocol within the home that I am familiar with.

Slave must be naked at all times.
Slave is not permitted to sit on furniture.
Slave is not allowed to speak until spoken too.
Slave is not allowed to turn his or her back on Master/Mistress.
Slave is not allowed to go to bed before Master/Mistress.
Slave must always be waiting kneeling in full Present position when Master/Mistress gets home.
Slave must never answer the phone or door.
Slave is not allowed to speak to anyone unless first approved by Master/Mistress.
Slave must knee at Master/Mistress\’s feet when not otherwise occupied.
Slave must always have his or her eyes lowered in submission.
Slave must always answer Sir, Yes Sir, Thank you, Sir (or Ma’am) .
Slave must always refer to him/her self as “this slave”, or in the third person, never in the first person.
Slave is not permitted to eat with the Master/Mistress.
To be honest I find little real purpose in rules such as these, other than to be a constant reminder of who is the Dominant and who is the submissive. Protocol within the home is not to be confused with formal protocol.

What I am speaking of is a system of rules and behaviors that are expected from a slave on a daily basis, these rules must be practical and productive. Keep it simple and keep it safe. Everything else will fall into place. 10013616_217065555158848_1890030426_n

The true means of Domme O Goddess to a SUB O A SLAVE PERSON

The adoration of woman is an ancient tradition. It can be very rewarding to explore the possible origins, influences and effects of a continuing need to indulge in woman worship. That is what we would like to try to do in this part of the site.

Several theories have been put forward to explain why so many men are aroused by the idea of kneeling down to kiss the feet of women. Often these tendencies are labelled as foot fetishism and masochism, and the argument then diverted into hypotheses as to how `foot fetishism’, the most common form of fetishism, seeds itself. Most of these explanations center around the standard idea that it is not so much the qualities of the fetish object itself which inspire, but their relation to something else at a significant moment.

Many seem to find the notion of men showing respect to women in such a profound way as kissing their feet unacceptable, and try to explain it away. It is certainly a powerful and primeval act, holding great potency and symbolism. Given society’s attitude to womanhood over recent centuries, for some this symbolism is probably extremely threatening. It is understandable, therefore, that derisory explanations are often associated with foot fetishism, traditionally ignoring it as an act of worship. How much more exciting it may be, however, to contemplate the explanation that foot fetishism is more directly related to the object of that fascination. Why not consider the idea that many men are aroused by worshipping women because it is a natural result of the power of the feminine. That the constant and ancient ritual for showing worship, kissing the foot, is an act charged with both spiritual and sexual intensity. Why not just come clean and admit that there is much about women that is worth worshipping.

We would like to dedicate this part of the site to the exploration of the divine feminine. It is not our intention to promote any kind of intellectual of theological dogma, but to collect and celebrate some of the richness of the subject. Interest in ancient and current attitudes towards the Goddess is growing rapidly as evidenced by the sheer amount of material available on the net. There is often a divide between communities involved in the sexual and spiritual worship of the feminine. We see a link between the two and would like to help bridge the gap.Over recent years a great deal of work has gone into the subject of ancient attitudes towards the feminine. Archaeologists have found evidence to suggest that woman played much more of a pivotal role in ancient societies. The further we go back the more dominant Goddess worship seems to be, and the more central the role played by women. Anthropologists like Evelyn Reed argue that matrilineal kinship systems (where name and wealth pass through the female line) are common amongst ancient and primitive societies, suggesting a natural tendency in human kind to respect the feminine and confer on women a leading role. Archaeology shows us that as we go back in time in Europe, Goddess worship becomes increasingly dominant. Maria Gimbutas has put forward convincing studies to suggest that in old Europe (pre 4000BC) Goddess worship was the norm.

The names of these female deities are numerous. Isis, Athena, Cybele, Demeter, Artemis, Kali, Bridget, Ceridwen, to name but a few. The remains of their sanctuaries and temples still survive today. Here we would like to dedicate some space for these timeless reminders of woman’s importance, and our respect and veneration of her. We would, of course, like to welcome any articles or contributions from visitors.

 

My “BASIC RULES” TO ALL SUBMISSIVE PEOPLE (FEMALE O MALE ) I EVER MET ON EARTH 2017

I would like to start by letting you know My “BASIC RULES” that you must apply:

*Respect, Obey and Follow Me without arguments.
*I want you to address Me with all respect, I want you to call Me “Queen”. MOST OF THE TIME.
*You enter at the lowly position of trainee. You’re a slave so you must know where you stand,
*I hate waiting for response CAUSE I HATE WASTING TIME.

If you with you wish to enter further to My world of domination you MUST know and apply this RULES! Is that all CLEAR??

Looking for a good SLAVE

 

Do you DREAM of a woman owning and controlling you’re DICK or COCK ?
I will own you’re DICK or COCK and all you have to do is close you’re eyes
and imagine that i am there with you , standing over you giving you detailed
instructions on what to do and when to CUM or not to CUM. Or i will create a teasing
and denial fantasy that will leave head and DICK or COCK spinning with lustful frenzy.
Come into my possession i will find out all about you through psychological and intellectual
probing. I am an educated MISTRESS and DOMME in all things seductive and erotic, tell me you’re deepest
and darkest desires SLAVE and i will tranport you in that time , to that place and feeling. We can be whatever you
want us to be. i can be you’re GODDESS, you’re TEACHER, you’re WORST NIGHTMARE, you’re EVIL MISTRESS, i will wrap you
around my finger and i will own and galvanize your MIND. So all you need to do is SUBMIT YOULSELF TO ME and accept the fact you are MINE and i am in control every stroke of you’re DICK or COCK, and when you will CUM and you will realized you are SEX SLAVE…..

Those are just a few examples on how i want to penetrate and control you’re mind. i am keen on listening and gathering detail. i want to know the smallest details of you’re mind so that i use them to weave you’re perfect fantasy. Detail is an important component to the art of
seduction much like the orchestration of a famous song , an art priece or writing of a book. if you like to be feminized, controlled, houmiliated, tortured, or simply enchanted. I will delve down and make it REAL FOR YOU just close you’re SLAVE and IMGAGINE

Private Lessons with a Domme

 

The positions that your slave can place themselves in for you are a
great way to measure the training progress of a beginner as well as
an advanced slave. No matter where your slave is, they should be
able to present themselves to you in your chosen way.

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But the trick with presenting is that you need to have a clear idea
of what kinds of positions your slave is expected to know, how
many, etc. If you open up any slave training book, you are likely
to find more positions than you can even remember, so you will need
to select a few that will work well for you and for your slave.
To add to the confusion is the idea that slave positions are often
used for no good reason at all – only for the fact that they are
slave positions. As a Dom/me, you have a great opportunity to
teach positions to your slave in order to add to their submission
as well as to create a measurable way for your slave to see how
they are meeting your expectations. By learning more about the
usefulness of slave presentations, you can begin to see just how
valuable they are in slave training.

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When you begin, you will need to research various ways that your
slave can present his or herself. You can find a number of great
descriptions within the bdsm slave training guide as well as
pictures that show other slaves and how they hold these positions.
This will give you a better idea of what might work for you in
terms of erotic pleasure for you as well as what will be
challenging for the slave to hold. Try to find several positions
that are suitable for you to teach.
Why you are having your slave present themselves to you is the next
challenge for a Dom/me. Most Dominants will like to have these
positions as a part of the slave’s life because they allow the
slave to show their submission in a very obvious and physical way.
These positions can be ordered at any time of the day or night to
bring the slave back into focus and into their submission. With
time, you will be able to simply say the command and they will be
ready to serve your needs.
The slave presentations also do well to create a sense of
humiliation in some slaves as they are typically performed naked
and to expose the genitalia in great detail. By spreading the
buttocks, for example, the slave can be embarrassed, thus feeling
emotionally controlled by the position alone – even if you do
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This action also helps to prepare the slave’s mind for their
submission during a scene or as soon as the Dominant walks into the
room. Everything else stops and they become the object of the
Dominant’s attention.
A slave that presents themselves is silently saying that they are
at the control of their Dominant, so these positions are a valuable
training tool for a Dominant. Teaching the slave several positions
and correcting and adjusting them until they are exactly the way
you want them will be a long process, but a rewarding one. You
will be able to set measurable goals for your slave and for the
training process.
With time, some Dominants will have their slaves learn dozens of
presentation positions that can be called upon in any situation.
While they aren’t all necessarily explicit in their form, they can
be simply ways to show the slave’s willful submission to your needs
and to prepare themselves for a punishment or the scene ahead.