Let’s face it – whether we want to admit it or not, we all make mistakes – in and out of the dungeon. And while it might seem better to simply avoid mistakes in the first place, it also seems like it would be a good idea to learn from the mistakes you do make. Whether you’re a Dominant or a submissive, you can learn from the training mistakes that you make, which will help you to develop your own skills in the dungeon, even if you don’t think you have room to improve – or even if you think it’s the problem of the other person (and it generally isn’t).
One of the biggest misconceptions I hear from people about Dom/sub relationships is that the relationship is only physical. While some Dom/sub relationships can be, for many a Dom/sub relationship involves so much more.
A Dom/sub relationship gives people involved an opportunity to live a completely harmonious and balanced life with their partner in an emotional, spiritual and physical capacity. It develops a relationship where each partner knows and understands their roles, allowing for a balance between personalities, skills, emotional needs and physical desires. It provides an opportunity for both partners to work together as one harmonious unit to be able to reach the objectives that will better serve the couple. As described in ancient Chinese philosophy, it is the balance between yin and yang. It is this balance that provides such a strong foundation for the Dom/sub relationship.
So why am I telling you this? Why don’t I just explain why slaves should serve? The reason why I express this is because I believe this message becomes lost behind many peoples sexual desires. They forget that some of the biggest reasons for a slave to serve and a Dominant to control are rooted deeply within developing a beautiful loving relationship that provides the support that each partner needs throughout life.Two people are capable of doing and experiencing so much more, when they are able to live and work together in a harmonious and balanced environment.
With that said, trainee Daisy and trainee n who are both currently going through the Female submissive training program, completed their assignment where they are meant to write out 50 reasons why they wish to serve their Dominant/Master. While many people list 50 sexual reasons, trainee k and trainee n both actually expressed some genuine heartfelt reasons for their desires to serve that I felt everybody could learn from.
To be Completed fully and Continued sometime in August or September !!!